elephant in the room
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A major issue or problem that is being ignored or avoided
  • 1During the meeting, everyone avoided talking about the elephant in the room.
  • 2The budget cuts were the elephant in the room that no one wanted to address.
Imagine there is a big problem that everyone knows about but no one talks about. It's like having a huge elephant in the room that everyone sees but pretends not to notice. This problem is so obvious, but everyone avoids talking about it.
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Remember, addressing the "elephant in the room" can lead to uncomfortable conversations, but it's necessary for growth and resolution. Don't be afraid to speak up and address the issue directly.
at a shoe store
The Unseen Dilemma
Deborah
These shoes are perfect for the party, but they're a bit pricey.
Elizabeth
Yeah, they're great, but there's the elephant in the room about your credit card bill.
Deborah
I know, but I really want to look my best.
Elizabeth
Just remember, looking good shouldn't come at the cost of financial stress.
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Similar to "elephant in the room":
  • 1unspoken issue
  • 2ignored problem