the elephant in the room
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A big problem or issue that is being ignored
  • 1During the meeting, nobody mentioned the elephant in the room about the budget cuts.
  • 2We need to address the elephant in the room before we can move forward with the project.
Imagine there is a big problem that everyone knows about but no one talks about. It's like there's a huge elephant in the room that everyone sees but pretends isn't there. This problem is so obvious, but everyone ignores it.
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Remember, addressing the "elephant in the room" can lead to uncomfortable conversations, but it's necessary for progress. Don't be afraid to speak up and address the issue directly.
at a medical appointment
Unspoken Concerns
Steven
I know we're here to discuss my headaches, but there's something else on my mind.
Ronald
I understand, but it seems like we're avoiding the elephant in the room.
Steven
You're right, we should talk about my stress levels too.
Ronald
Exactly, addressing that might help with the headaches.
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