gets, got, gotten, getting

to get at
phrasal verb

To criticize someone repeatedly
  • 1She's always getting at him for being late.
  • 2Stop getting at me about my grades.
When a person says unkind things to someone again and again, they are making that person feel bad. They keep pointing out mistakes or problems, not just once, but many times. This can hurt the other person's feelings because it happens often, not just one time.
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Teachers or parents might "get at" children if they keep telling them to clean their room or do homework, making the child feel picked on.
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Snip and Critique
Frank
Every time I come here, my boss finds something new to get at me about.
Dorothy
That sounds frustrating. Maybe it's time to talk to them about it.
Frank
I know, but it's like they never stop finding faults.
Dorothy
Well, at least you can relax here for a bit.
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Similar to "to get at":
  • 1criticize
  • 2nag